As I told you before….. I’m taking you along with me on my journey. So why don’t I let you in on what’s been happening with me lately. If you’re not the gushy type, please exit now…. You’ve been warned…..
I met someone. You always hear about people meeting their soulmate, well I think I did too. The crazy part about it is, in such a short time I’ve fallen in love with him. We’ve been talking since March 1st, 2018 and it still feels fresh and new.
I have to be honest with you….. Before him I was bitter and annoyed with other relationships because I felt like most of them lacked loyalty like my last relationships did. I accepted that I was just fine with being single for the rest of my life and would rather it’d be that way than to allow myself to be hurt again. I also accepted that it was going to be almost impossible to find someone who wanted to be with a woman with a child….I mean who wants those obstacles, right? I struggled with all kinds of lies that the Devil pumped my head with, and in turn…. It made me a little bitter.
I’m sure you’re wondering how this all came to pass since I was #teamcutthroat….. I’m glad you asked. We actually went to high school together. Fast forward to my 29th birthday, February 22, 2018. Of course my best friend wanted to take me out for my birthday and was absolutely not taking “no” for an answer. Of course I had to get all dolled up as possible because, hello, you only turn twenty-fine once! I’ll give you some visuals…..
This was after I got dolled up and started playing dress up to see what I wanted to turn heads in. I felt a little too over the top and overdressed…. Especially for just being in Huntsville, AL…. So I changed into something more… Covered…..
This is what I ended up changing into and accepting it wasn’t too much but still just enough……
Apparently the soon to be love of my life was in the club that same night and took notice to me. I had no idea he was there. That night ended without anything further happening. We both went on with our lives. A few days later I was working on getting my followers up and was going on a spree of following people in Huntsville and I figured he must have been one that I followed because I received a DM from him. Typically I ignore my DMs after I read the notification…. But this time I said what the heck I’ll entertain him…. Especially after I creeped back on his page to see who he was. Nevertheless, I felt obligated to respond….. Below is proof that you should never discredit the power of the DM. I just think it’s in the power of the presentation. Treat the other person with the utmost respect. My boyfriend came correct the first time and that’s why he got a response…. On the inside I was still rolling my eyes and thinking I was wasting my time once again… But he surpassingly came with it and wowed me…. Which rarely happens….I was intrigued….
He called me that night and after our first conversation we both new that we were something sacred and survival for each other. We had super deep conversation on the first call. I could have talked to him all night which was so weird for me because usually I’m pretty reserved and it takes me a while to warm up and open up to someone. The thing was I match vibes and his vibes just meshed so well with mine. I’ll spare you the gushy stuff but I will tell you that I’ve learned so many new things and takeaways that I want to share with you. Feel free to check it out on my next post how to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship.